It’s no secret that being a webcam dominatrix can be a wild ride. I’ve been in the business for over five years now and I’ve encountered some truly extreme requests in that time. From requests to deep-throat my entire arm to executing some truly kinky humiliation play, I’ve heard it all.
One of the most extreme requests I’ve ever received as a webcam dominatrix was from a client I’ll call Felix. Felix was a middle-aged man who enjoyed wrestling with me. He requested that I wrestle him while I was wearing a clear plastic catsuit so he could see my body move as we wrestled. He was also looking for a bit of humiliation, so he asked me to wear some of the most embarrassing costume pieces, such as a giant teddy bear onesie, a hotdog costume, and even a school girl outfit.
Another extreme request I’ve encountered as a webcam dominatrix came from a man I’ll call Thomas. Thomas was looking for an extra-hard dom session and wanted me to simulate a BDSM ritual with a pair of bolt cutters. He wanted me to use the bolt cutters to cut through the clothing of his fetish wear (which I had to provide him as well) and then redo the outfit in a way that he enjoyed. He wanted the entire experience to be a sort of “torture for him. In order to make sure that the experience was as exact as possible, he even requested that I make it so that the bolt cutters emitted a loud sound when being used.
Finally, one of the most extreme requests I’ve ever encountered as a webcam dominatrix was from a client I’ll call Henry. Henry was into financial domination and wanted me to play a game of Monopoly with him – but with his own real money. He requested that I act as the banker and at the same time be his “dominant. As the game progressed, I would tell him which properties to buy and forbid him from buying others. As soon as he got to a certain amount of money – whatever I decided – I would declare the game over. Any money he was left with was mine to keep. In a way, it was a very extreme form of a “pay-to-play kind of setup.
Needless to say, I’ve certainly experienced my fair share of extreme requests as a webcam dominatrix. Through these experiences, I’ve developed a deep understanding not only of my clients’ desires but also my own limits. These experiences have made me a better, more experienced webcam dominatrix – and that’s something I’m truly thankful for. Click Here.
What are some of the unique challenges of being a financial domme or sub?
Creating a financial domme/sub relationship is a unique experience that brings many
challenges. In this type of relationship, a domme (dominant) and a sub (submissive) will
engage in activities governed by a financial arrangement. A financial domme/sub
relationship is considered more intimate and personal than traditional BDSM (bondage,
discipline, sadism, and masochism) activities.
The first challenge of this type of relationship is creating clear boundaries and
rules. Financial arrangements can become complicated and are not always easy to
navigate. Dommes and subs should establish specifics of each payment, including
when and how payments are made, the amount that is to be exchanged, and what is
expected in return for the money.
Second, communication between the financial domme and sub will be key to making
the relationship successful. This type of relationship requires strong communication
and trust between partners. The domme and sub should create an environment conducive
to respectful communication, as inappropriate language and behavior can cause tension
and disruption. Communication is essential for both parties to decide upon the
financial arrangement and how comfortable both are with it.
Third, financial domme/sub relationships inherently involve an element of control. As
the domme, you will be in control of the finances and interactions between you and the
sub. It is important for both the domme and sub to understand their respective roles
and respect each other’s limits. To further ensure safety and maintain a healthy
relationship, clear contracts between the domme and sub should be negotiated and
reviewed regularly.
Finally, financial dommes and subs should keep in mind the importance of consent.
Financial domme/sub relationships are not just about making money; they are also
about enjoying, respecting, and exploiting consent. It is essential that both parties
agree to the parameters of the arrangement before enacting it.
Financial domme/sub relationships come with many unique challenges, but if
handled correctly, they can be incredibly rewarding for both parties. The key to
success lies in understanding expectations, honest communication, and mutual respect.